Draw closer or pull away
When I feel hurt, I have a tendency to pull away from that which has hurt me; Especially if it is a friend. I do this so I won't be hurt more but it never works. Sometimes, I draw away because
the other person is lashing out too. I understand the pain but I lack the ability to help them.
So there we are........both hurt but both crippled
also. A peace offering is an option but it sometimes backfires. Perhaps it is better to wait a bit.......let the hurt ease and the anger calm.
Tread water...........maybe for now.
2 comments:
Sometimes pulling away from the situation, giving you and the other person time, is the best thing to do. Just don't let too much time pass before you make amends of give a peace offering. I love you!!!
L
Sometimes pulling away from the situation, giving you and the other person time, is the best thing to do. Just don't let too much time pass before you make amends or give a peace offering. I love you!!!
L
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